ok difficult child is mad because he says that I have not held up my end of the deal but I say that the deal is stilll in progress because there has not been completion. I told him that when he came home that after he cleaned him room that I would let him paint it cool after he reapaired the holes in the wall. --He started and didn't finish cleaning it -then trashed it again because "I didn't keep my end of the deal" His room is still trashed so why should I pay to have it painted?? He needs to get his drivers license 1. He has to wear glasses but doesn't like them so I bought him glasses and one set of contacts so that he could see to learn how to drive. ----He broke the glasses and let the contacts dry up --now stating that I know he can drive without them I am just breaking the deal. 2. He needs to learn how to drive. I have taken him out several times --husband refuses to telp teach him (but I am the one that taught the other three too)but at least he would sit up front with the others--NOT with difficult child. I feel he still needs practice and I tell him to do his chores and when I get home I will take him. He doesn't do the chores and blames me that I broke the promise to teach him . 3. He needs to call and set up an appointment to have the driving test when he knows that I can go because I can not make personal calls from work. He can't because he doesn't know the number and no one will take him. I told him that I would buy him a car as soon as I can afford a lttle run down something. 1. He can't see and now has no glasses 2. He has no license 3. I don't have the money yet to buy the car. BUT I AM LIAR NOT HOLDING UP MY END OF THE DEAL! Can someone please explain to me if am in the wrong? He says that this is why he is pisted off at me and we are fighnting.