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call 911........call 911
Hi ya Boots -
Well here's my take on it after living with a man who literally makes some very sick incarcerated individuals look like poster children for good behavior according to myformer therapist (who is the therapist to the prisoners inside the prisons) - FWIW. People that have no conscience can't grow one. You can't guilt these kinds of people into feeling anything, teach, or make them feel something. They can emulate emotions and reactions, but that's about the closest it gets to the human function.
Something inside their genetic makeup or their maping inside their brain is so off kilter we (people that think and behave like most other people do) can not begin to fathom how someone could ever say the things these guys (and girls) do or behave like they do.
When I told my therapist just bits and pieces of what Dude has said/done to us? He told us that Dude was dangerous, unstable, wasn't likely to change, and was very much headed down anti-social road. The fact that his biofather is socio-psycho pathic doesn't help. I'd hoped the therapy and all over the years had helped but now? Meh....not so much. About two months ago Dude said some things to me that were so disgusting had I not gotten between him and DF? I think 911 would have needed to be called. When I say raunchy I mean disgusting. Yet two days later? Just like it never happened. Then "Can I borrow a dollar?" Unreal.
I had a stroke over Dudes incarceration a few years ago. I missed going to Department of Juvenile Justice visitation. DF told Dude, figuring he'd want to know why I wasn't there. Dude said "Oh....(short pause) Can I have some money for the vending machine?" So see? It's just (shrug) how they're built.
The best you can do at this point? Detach before you make yourself crazy. I think I got about 1/2 way there, but I'm determined to make a full recovery. lol
Hugs & Love
Star
Well here's my take on it after living with a man who literally makes some very sick incarcerated individuals look like poster children for good behavior according to myformer therapist (who is the therapist to the prisoners inside the prisons) - FWIW. People that have no conscience can't grow one. You can't guilt these kinds of people into feeling anything, teach, or make them feel something. They can emulate emotions and reactions, but that's about the closest it gets to the human function.
Something inside their genetic makeup or their maping inside their brain is so off kilter we (people that think and behave like most other people do) can not begin to fathom how someone could ever say the things these guys (and girls) do or behave like they do.
When I told my therapist just bits and pieces of what Dude has said/done to us? He told us that Dude was dangerous, unstable, wasn't likely to change, and was very much headed down anti-social road. The fact that his biofather is socio-psycho pathic doesn't help. I'd hoped the therapy and all over the years had helped but now? Meh....not so much. About two months ago Dude said some things to me that were so disgusting had I not gotten between him and DF? I think 911 would have needed to be called. When I say raunchy I mean disgusting. Yet two days later? Just like it never happened. Then "Can I borrow a dollar?" Unreal.
I had a stroke over Dudes incarceration a few years ago. I missed going to Department of Juvenile Justice visitation. DF told Dude, figuring he'd want to know why I wasn't there. Dude said "Oh....(short pause) Can I have some money for the vending machine?" So see? It's just (shrug) how they're built.
The best you can do at this point? Detach before you make yourself crazy. I think I got about 1/2 way there, but I'm determined to make a full recovery. lol
Hugs & Love
Star