3 days until discharge and court - we have offered transitional living program for difficult child - he begs to come home - we said no - he originally defied saying he would rather have nothing than go - but later called and agreed to go - begrudgingly - now that he finds out that he would have to go straight from discharge he is refusing and saying he will just skip court and disappear - he has no where to go - no money - no phone - nothing - I'm scared - although I want him to go I don't want to push him to despair - this is the worst thing ever - if he follows through on his plan he will be arrested when they find him for skipping court and go to jail - he's 18 now so we're talking the real deal.....I don't know if I can do this and what the options are he is acting so irrationally and obviously so scared and angry