timer lady
Queen of Hearts
Once again...."paranoia runs deep; into your life it will creep."
My sister in law showed up at my house this past Wednesday & started going thru my paperwork. Given my dad, aunts & uncles were to arrive in the next hour or two & the level of pain I was in I really didn't keep track of what was happening & what she took out of my home. I remember giving her my password & such to my bank account & am now hitting myself over the head.
She contacted an attorney about moving me closer to family with-o the tweedles - I know the tweedles are a huge stressor in my life AND they are my children. I told her that leaving like this might be considered child abandonment since I can & am still being asked to make decisions. I own my home & am making the correct choices for my children.
My neuro doctor saw me yesterday on an emergent situation because being off the prednisone has caused a huge increase in pain as well as my sed rates & other blood work. He told me to treat the pain - my sister in law while an RN isn't fully aware of the entire situation nor should be as she isn't my medical power of attorney. Neuro doctor told me to treat the pain - I'm not over doing it, in fact, am not filling my medications as directed. If the pain is under control I will be less confused; more aware of what is going on around me. Don't listen to my families concerns about addiction - that is between him & me.
However, my family has "decided" I will move closer to them & leave the tweedles here. They have decided that they will handle my finances with-o my input - I haven't legally appointed a POA yet. I will sell my house as is not let me enjoy the improvements I've made & the joy I get out of working in my yard.
I'm concerned - do I seem that out of it? Has the decline in my IQ due to the brain injury make me at risk for losing my children; my house & my freedom?
My sister in law showed up at my house this past Wednesday & started going thru my paperwork. Given my dad, aunts & uncles were to arrive in the next hour or two & the level of pain I was in I really didn't keep track of what was happening & what she took out of my home. I remember giving her my password & such to my bank account & am now hitting myself over the head.
She contacted an attorney about moving me closer to family with-o the tweedles - I know the tweedles are a huge stressor in my life AND they are my children. I told her that leaving like this might be considered child abandonment since I can & am still being asked to make decisions. I own my home & am making the correct choices for my children.
My neuro doctor saw me yesterday on an emergent situation because being off the prednisone has caused a huge increase in pain as well as my sed rates & other blood work. He told me to treat the pain - my sister in law while an RN isn't fully aware of the entire situation nor should be as she isn't my medical power of attorney. Neuro doctor told me to treat the pain - I'm not over doing it, in fact, am not filling my medications as directed. If the pain is under control I will be less confused; more aware of what is going on around me. Don't listen to my families concerns about addiction - that is between him & me.
However, my family has "decided" I will move closer to them & leave the tweedles here. They have decided that they will handle my finances with-o my input - I haven't legally appointed a POA yet. I will sell my house as is not let me enjoy the improvements I've made & the joy I get out of working in my yard.
I'm concerned - do I seem that out of it? Has the decline in my IQ due to the brain injury make me at risk for losing my children; my house & my freedom?