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toughlovin
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Gosh I hate this.... I just wish my difficult child would get his life together, communicate with us more easily, so I didn't have to wonder what the heck is going on. The other day he randomly asks me what he has to do to change his number. I respond and no response back. I check the phone records and he is back to communicating with the girlfriend. Ugh. What the heck is wrong with her... they have no communication for a while and then she gets in touch with him again. They have a volatile relationship, break up, he crashes and burns, starts to pick himself up and then she gets in touch again and reels him back in and we go through the cycle again. He certainly has his part in it, no question, but darn I just wish she would let him go......
Of course he has not communicated or answered any of my texts... I have only sent him a couple but still the lack of communication with me, the contact with her, and his recent relapse all has me worried.
I am trying not to obsess and just continue to enjoy as much as I can the holiday season.
I am going to call the sober place on Monday.... I want to make sure they will contact me if he leaves. They take money off my credit card every week for rent and so I want to be sure I am notified if he leaves so I stop paying rent!!!! And if she brings him back up here again he may not tell me.
Ugh.... hopefully he is getting support down there to leave her once and for all and to move on.
TL
Of course he has not communicated or answered any of my texts... I have only sent him a couple but still the lack of communication with me, the contact with her, and his recent relapse all has me worried.
I am trying not to obsess and just continue to enjoy as much as I can the holiday season.
I am going to call the sober place on Monday.... I want to make sure they will contact me if he leaves. They take money off my credit card every week for rent and so I want to be sure I am notified if he leaves so I stop paying rent!!!! And if she brings him back up here again he may not tell me.
Ugh.... hopefully he is getting support down there to leave her once and for all and to move on.
TL