BusynMember
Well-Known Member
I dont blame the parents or school. Some kids seem to be violent just due to brain differences. I mean, I'm sure jeffrey dahmers parents, even if they struggled, didnt teach him to kill and dismantle animals as a child then murder and eat children. Nobody really knows why certain people are different...whether it is being exceptionally gifted in a good way or do bad, violent things. Most kids see violence in school, on television, in the movies etc and dont become violent.
If this is due to a cognitive,
/developmental issues the best help I know of in the U.S. is what I learned when I advocated for my autistic son. Do get the schools involved. Our sons high school did half the work, bless them.
Contact your county's aging and disabilities to have him tested as disabled. It doesnt sound as if it will be that hard with your sons school record. The schools take on his behavior will greatly help. If he gets SSI, he also qualifies for other services to help him. He clear ly is not going to live as an adult without help. Not now anyway. I would give it a try. A diagnosis helps. Id take him to a private neuropsycologist. They are great diagnosticians and ours knew what to put down to help Disability accept son.
Hugs for your hurting heart.
If this is due to a cognitive,
/developmental issues the best help I know of in the U.S. is what I learned when I advocated for my autistic son. Do get the schools involved. Our sons high school did half the work, bless them.
Contact your county's aging and disabilities to have him tested as disabled. It doesnt sound as if it will be that hard with your sons school record. The schools take on his behavior will greatly help. If he gets SSI, he also qualifies for other services to help him. He clear ly is not going to live as an adult without help. Not now anyway. I would give it a try. A diagnosis helps. Id take him to a private neuropsycologist. They are great diagnosticians and ours knew what to put down to help Disability accept son.
Hugs for your hurting heart.