He actually got an extra day because of leap year... Well, just thought I would give everyone an update. He has been a little better...I think he is starting to feel the heat. Just this morning he actually asked me if I was really making him leave in 8 days. The fact that he asked me that tells me that he still continues to not take me seriously. So I stood firm and said "of course! You haven't found a Place yet?!", "what are you going to do?" I need him to wake up and smell the coffee. He tried to strike a deal with me, and I told him if he wants to sit down and go over a plan he needs to do it with everyone in the house, not just me because we all have been affected by his actions. So we'll see what happens. If it does comes down to it and I feel that we can come to an arrangement and that he is serious. I already know what I will require of him. #1 Therapy, working full time and going to school part time or vis versa, responsibilities around the house and if he shows up drunk or high or anything from my house walks off again, he's gone!