My son has been diagnosed a month ago with ODD and is now going to counseling. He's 14 and looking back it seems we've always had problems with him. There hasn't been a week that's gone by in the last few months where there hasn't been something bad happening, either getting in trouble at school, getting suspended from basketball games, getting kicked off the basketball team, etc. We've learned to try to stay calm around him and that's helped but we don't know what to do with other parents. He does stuff at school or in sports and then the parents call and are telling us what a terrible kid we have and what terrible parents we are because we don't "make" him be better. We've told the school about the diagnosis but we just don't know how to interact with the other parents, and the other kids for that matter. Does anyone have any ideas?