Am i wrong for wanting to see difficult child at this point? We do not know how long he will be in jail and he more than likely will be going to a state facility and I refuse to go to a state prison to see him. He is currently in a local jail about 20 minutes away. husband is coming down on me for wanting to see him. husband refuses to have anything to do with difficult child at this point. Says he will not go see him cuz that is just rewarding him for what he's done. So am I wrong or is it a mom thing that we still want to see our kids even after all this? I am not going there to fill his head with a bunch of stuff or anything. I just feel I want to see him now cuz when he is sent away it could be years until I see him. Any comments would be great.