My daughter's daycare director insisted that I put my daughter back in pull-ups when she is there. After 2 years of fighting with her about pottying, they finally gave up. My daughter was upset when I told her she had to wear one to school. I told her that she didn't have to tell anyone she was wearing one if she didnt' want to. She goes to a new Psychiatrist on Thursday. I hope he is much more efficent than the last. After that I guess I will have to notify her school about her problems before she starts in August. I'm still in disbelief that we are at this point. I kept hoping it would be something she would outgrow. Her defiance gets harder and harder to deal with each day. I don't know what else to do.