Son has been calling me begging me to come home. I want to say yes, but I can't help him. I can only have and keep boundaries. It does not feel good. I know that if I let him come home it is so that I don't have to feel bad. I also know that if he comes home, I will be walking on egg shells. He is staying somewhere that does not have water or ac. He is looking for a comfortable place to carry on doing the same things he is doing. I gave him phone numbers to call. he just kept saying he can't do it I HAVE to help him. He is an adult he needs to help himself.