boy where do i start as so much has happened since last tuesday. -ian hit teacher again was taken out of classroom and spent weds-fri in a room with-a parapro for the whole school day -teacher had to take a 'few'days off and threatened to quit. so now ian is being placed in a new classroom this wk -have had 3 mtgs to try to hammer out a behavior plan. super won't let him back into a classroom setting until plans are in place. -private social worker mtg on weds went ok but need more than 45 mins to discuss things. -attending an explosive child workshop with-principle and new teacher this weds. have to give them credit for including me. -difficult child had 2 major meltdowns sunday and today. he tried to choke me. i am so fearful of what will happen to my little boy who used to be so sweet and kind. i am so floored that my son would send the teacher over the deep end. obviously the school was not communicating to me what all was happening in the classroom. now the school is very cooperative and i am betting it is partly do to my going to supers office, teacher lossing it(i am guessing she talked to her union rep about not getting the support from the school in handling difficult child) and super not being happy that principle gave me a book with-o following the suggestions in the book. i am so emotionally drained and fear for my son's future. i can't wait until all the testing is done and we can get an updated iep in place even though i know it will be an ongoing process. thanks for listening. we have an appointment with-psychologist tomorrow to see about possible medications for impulsiveness. i hope it helps cuz he has done nothing but escalate his behavior the last few mths.