I don't know if anyone has any suggestions. Myself and my husband are going back to our hometown for a vacation to visit famiky and friends. My family knows about our estrangement from our daughter and our grandson. But our friends do not due to geography . I know our friends are going to ask about our daughter and grandchild as they watched her grow up. How do I answer their questions? I don't want to disclose anything. I want to enjoy our vacation , that's why we are going , to get away from it all and for awhile just forget.