Well, Linda, if she doesn't take the visual cue that you want to get out on the green ASAP, or you get more hemming and hawing, you can always smack her over the head with- it!!
Keepin' those good vibrations coming at you. Hope the invisible hand of fate touches you with good luck and that good health comes to you soon. {{{HUGS}}}
Take the putter, she should have a sense of humor and what's the saying??? Speak softly and carry a big stick? Thinking of you and sending strength and peace to get you thru......