My son is 23 and live on the west coast. We live in the east. Has a history of anxiety, depression and alcohol abuse. Has been with his girlfriend for over 5 years and during that time he abused alcohol and she tried to get out of the relationship. Each time he manipulated her back. So she moved with him to the west coast and has been there almost 2 years. They have adopted pets together as well. She told me that she plans to leave him in a few weeks and wanted to let me know so I could fly out and be with him because he will be upset. UPSET is not the word. His world is about to crash and I feel horrible because I know. He says he has gave up drinking and is having anxiety attacks but is trying to eat healthier and is going to start walking. She said that it isn't the alcohol but the fact that he doesn't want a wedding or children and that he is selfish. I feel lost. I know the outcome of this. His one pet was sick last night and he called me twice saying how he loves his pets and hates to see them sick. The one that was ill is one that she is taking with her. He will be beyond upset. He already feels everything bad happens to him and I can only imagine what this is going to do to him. He will be all alone there trying to make it go with his income. I feel he will give up on life. I am beyond scared. We plan on flying out but if he realizes we knew he will just push us away. I am scared. Sorry for rambling. This is all I can think about every minute of every day. I feel I should reach out to her and ask her if there is anything that can be done to save the relationship. i fear he will be that distraught he will lose his job plus more. I feel almost 95% sure he will try to take his own life.