difficult child won't get out of bed and get ready. But, I am doing much better about her. Yesterday I told her she is 16, I am not going to whine or beg her to get up. If she does not go, I will call her in unexcused but the rest falls on her. I did explain that at the rate she is going, she will be lucky to graduate, and her "dreams" of being a Vet are never going to happen. (Didn't bother to explain I can't even see her attending college.) We will see if she can get herself up and ready on time today. (Will let you all know later today.) On the upside, I think I have finally gotten to the place of "I do not care, it is not my problem" Not sure that is a good thing, but that is where I am.