well we had difficult child I 's IEP meeting today. He's had nothing but an attitude since returning to school after his stay at the shelter. So it would seem I am the only one who left court thoroughly shaken! The CST reccomends he be placed in the resource class, which is not a BD class, but yet, if the kids have to go to the bathroom or nurse they have an escort, sounds like a BD class to me, not that I care either way at this point when it comes to difficult child I. A HS diploma is the goal, even if it means a resource class! 2morrow we have difficult child II's CMO "team meeting", so we'll see what comes of that, I am sure they're going to pressure me to a. involve my parents in these meetings (which is not even an option) and b. go to family counseling with the boys (which is just one more thing I have to fit in the schedule) I am really bummed that I can not buy the Low income condo that I was selected for, why not? Well I would have to have S2BX sign a notorized affidavit statig he's has no interest in claiming the property, now or in the future (because we're not divorced yet). Now there's no way he will sign this, this would be a way he could show he still has power over me, and I'd rather not even ask, because I KNOW his answer!