he said he has a little swelling in his cheek from last night but he maintained and he's ok. He's livid about not being released and trying to tell me to sign him over to post d so he can get out of there. I tried to explain I am not doing that because it's siginig custody over and would age him out. He thinks I can fight this afterwards- I could if it was a court order but not if I willfully and knowingly sign over custody. He said the staff in there are doing everything they can to try to get him out, had a husge mtg yesterday when the word came in not to release him, the word came in from Department of Juvenile Justice director's office, and they were saying they can't hold him past his release date but the director told them to so they change his release date to "dot-dot-dot". I told him to maintain- that's just more evidence. He wants to know why I couldn't get something done today- well it's not that simple. He said they are doing this because I didn't do what they wanted- yah son but that's not a reason to go ballistic, that's evidence. Hang tight. Can we say pressure here? See, this is the kind of koi the probation did when difficult child was under MH tx and both our lives ended up destroyed. Something is seriously wrong with this picture but he can't be violated right now and I can't be thrown in jail for not "willfully and knowingly" signing over parental rights without a court order stating to give up custody and it can be proven that any court order for a hearing, PO appointment, submit difficult child to detention center, etc, have ALL been met to a T. Did someone post to my earlier thread that hair is flying all over the place about this? I guess I need to wrap up my notes for the letter to fed Department of Juvenile Justice. If it's to a point where Department of Juvenile Justice staff are saying the director is telling them to change a release date but they aren't supposed to and have no date to change it to, just maybe fed gov will look at it.