difficult child has never been tested. And certainly psychiatrists or tdocs have never ever talked to me alone. Nobody has ever requested his records from school and the testing from school. What are they going to ask? Anything I need to specifically ask? Should I be taking notes? Should I happen to mention our not so happy house that fights constantly or should I leave that up to difficult child? Any therapist or therapy we have ever done difficult child refuses to talk. He has done this forever. This is different. he wants help. He doesn't want to feel this way. I also think he is looking for some miracle drug that he can take and instantly his homework gets done. I waited so long to get into anyone, I want to be sure i am ready. It was short notice. Called on Wednesday appointment on Friday morning. I have a million thoughts running through my head about difficult child. What are the important things. Details or not?