Not sure if this is the right place to post this as it is different than so many of the issues here.
easy child/difficult child is 20 and has no friends. She sort of has one but they have only done something together twice and that girl is leaving for college (they used to work together). She has a ton of anxiety and is extremely shy about meeting new people. She made bad friendship choices in high school and was burned by them which is probably making it harder.
She doesn't go out, doesn't really socialize. Mainly she just hangs with us and I know that is not a good thing for someone her age.
She was hoping at her new job she could make some friends but it doesn't seem to be working out. She is hoping when she starts classes in a few weeks at our local tech college she will make some friends. She told husband that she will try sitting nearer other students instead of as far away as she can get. I've suggested maybe joining a club because she could meet people with similar interests.
Any other suggestions? She is not the type to initiate things but we've tried to tell her she needs to at times. She is seeing a therapist so I am also hoping she will work on this there.
easy child/difficult child is 20 and has no friends. She sort of has one but they have only done something together twice and that girl is leaving for college (they used to work together). She has a ton of anxiety and is extremely shy about meeting new people. She made bad friendship choices in high school and was burned by them which is probably making it harder.
She doesn't go out, doesn't really socialize. Mainly she just hangs with us and I know that is not a good thing for someone her age.
She was hoping at her new job she could make some friends but it doesn't seem to be working out. She is hoping when she starts classes in a few weeks at our local tech college she will make some friends. She told husband that she will try sitting nearer other students instead of as far away as she can get. I've suggested maybe joining a club because she could meet people with similar interests.
Any other suggestions? She is not the type to initiate things but we've tried to tell her she needs to at times. She is seeing a therapist so I am also hoping she will work on this there.