easy child 1 (aka easy child/difficult child) has been bullying difficult child very badly lately. Calling her names and imitating her almost every time she says something. difficult child (until a few days ago) has been much improved over the past couple of years but easy child 1 can not let go of the very difficult times our family had with her and is still trying to "punish" difficult child for tantrums and events that happened years ago. It is almost as if as her tantrums etc have diminished his anger at her has escalated. I worry about both difficult child and easy child 1 as he is hurting her but also destroying himself consumed with anger. difficult child is goes to a therapist but it is slow going in terms of any progress. easy child 1 went to a therapist for a year but then wanted to stop, did not like the therapist and felt it was not helping. We tried having easy child 1 go to difficult children therapist but that was not a good match for him. I will try to get to him another therapist but would welcome any thoughts and advice.