My husbands adopted daughter is almost 20. She has been running away for the last 3 years but is currently living in an apartment that we pay for. She has no skills, just got her ged and has no job. We have paid about $200,000 in the last 2 years for residential treatment programs and health insurance. In the last 6 months she has ovedosed 3 times in what is called "para suicide" attempts. She swallows bottles of pills like tylenol while calling 911 so that she will be rescued-and get out of what ever trouble she is in eg: steeling items. She has run up hospital bills in the neighborhood of $30,000. Does anyone know at what point are we no longer financially responsible for her?