First time husband and I have had a half hour to talk since the police visit and the hospital visit last week. He was out of town until Friday and then between dealing with difficult child, my work schedule and always having kids around we haven't had time to catch up or share our opinions on the subject of what's next. Needless to say it did not go well. I am the only one who tries to enforce anything anymore, he is gone a good deal of the time. I said I didn't feel supported. Either with discipline or with him gone all the time. That was it. He was done. He travels to supplement our income. And because he gets a lot of pleasure and sense of accomplishment from it. But I crossed the line, I guess when I said he is gone too much... He is gone again, this time to get away because he is so angry at me and the situation. I'm done with angry, we just need a plan in which I don't get stuck making the parenting decisions.