For those of you who use these techniques, does your spouse go along with these techniques? I ordered the DVD they had at the website yesterday. Because my husband is older (11 years my senior) I'm concerned that he's going to be too set in his ways to change if DS' issues require a different approach. So what happens if one parent uses the Easy Child techniques, but the other uses their own method? I know the optimum, of course, is that both parents are on the same page ... but I guess my question is ... is it more determental to the kid if one parent is using Easy Child and the other is using a "typical" method?