This is not a battle that I will fight. If my genius IQ children cannot figure out how to not be cold in cold weather, then they will be cold. It simply is not worth my energy. Tyler has maybe worn a coat (a jacket, not a real coat - I didn't even purchase a real coat for him this year after four years of having them never even be worn twice before being outgrown.) four times this year. Twice were because his gpa refused to take him somewhere with-o a coat. The boy simply is not cold. He has five prs of pants but has only worn 2 of them. he somehow lost the others. In his closet. On hangars. On the rod, you know . . . hanging up. I found them with the tags on them right where they went when I bought them and told him to hang them up. Guess I forgot to tell him that he could unhang them and wear them. silly me.
One of his teachers did a major double take a few weeks back. thank you was wearing winter attire for the first time. My mother knitted a Dr. Who scarf for him (the 9 foot long version, not the 12 foot one because it would drag on the ground). He wears it everywhere. No coats though. He wore cargo shorts, crocs with-o socks, a tshirt and the scarf the day after he got it. We had snow and sleet that day. He said he was 'toasty warm!", lol.
I often get grief for not wearing what my parents consider to be the 'right' coat.
I have converted my mother to shawls this year though. They are warmer, far more flexible, and more comfortable than coats. I have fleece fabric that I use (some started life as throw blankets, some as fabric), and some lighter knits that I am picking up. Think pashmina type things. I can cover all of me or part of me, and I don't swell. I do keep an extra in the car at all times in winter, just in case.
I will say that when we travel any distance I do make sure we have coats, hats and mittens in the car even if the kids are not wearing them at all times. For me it is the same as keeping a case of water bottles in the car, just a wise thing to do. When you routinely drive an hour to shop, well, a stash of many things in the car is wise. I won't fight with the kids over coats though. I did get a laugh when the school called to offer to buy a coat for Tyler last year. I told them they were welcome to, though he wouldn't wear one they bought any more than the ones he already had at home. He just gets too hot for them. They quizzed him over the coats and if he 'really' had one or more, and he even carried one to school to show them. It was just a few degrees above freezing that day and he wore shorts and a tshirt and carried the coat rather than wearing it.
Is this really a battle you want to fight? thank you knows he won't get rides to places simply due to the cold, and to dress comfortably for the weather. His comfortable and mine are different, but as long as it is not life threatening, he is old enough and able minded enough to grasp the concept of wearing a coat if he gets cold. Thus it is Not. My. Problem.