O.k. I'm grounding myself from this board until I get my house clean. mother in law (the abusive person who tried to kill husband and would make them clean for hours before school at 8am) is coming. husband is so jumpy. We're in a 2 bedroom appartment, and stuffed to overflowing. Tensions are high. I'll probably not be back until the 15th or 16th after she leaves. She won't say/do anything abusive as long as I'm in the room. I hope she isn't staying here, but with different realtives. Talk with ya latter.