I'm sure many of you have been through this and have some good advice for me. Lately I have been overwhelmed with guilt for what I did or didn't do as a mother which made Kat end up where she is right now. It's not like I was a drug addict or running around with men all the time during her childhood. It's just the basic I should have been harder on her, I shouldn't have ignored some problem behaviors, I should have been more strict... I could go on and on with the "should haves." I know this is in no way productive, as I can't go back into the past and change things, but I'm really stuck in this way of thinking right now. Any ideas about how to let this go and focus on the present and the future?