A big fight ensued at my house with my 17 y/o daughter for coming home past curfew. When we told her about her punishment, she started screaming at her Dad. He grounded her for 2 weeks. No truck and No phone. When I tried to take her phone away, she started screaming and fighting me to hold on to it. That told me there was something on there I shouldn't see. I finally got it and sat down. I asked her what was on it? She said nothing. Then she literally jumped on top of me trying to get her phone. I tried to stand up and she pushed me back down so hard I screamed at the top of my lungs for my husband. We ended up grounding her for a month. So here's the kicker that I don't know what to do about. I found text from her boyfriend calling me a , saying he couldn't stand to be around me anymore, and that he told his parents he hated us and we were two faced. I loved the kid before this. We've never argued. I've been very supportive of his relationship with my daughter. So how do I handle this new information? Please help my feelings are so hurt by this!