DazedandConfused
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I'm going to file for an order for protection for civil harassment on Friday for daughter against three of her former classmates. Another vicious, sexual, and simply heartbreaking Myspace was made of old pictures of Daughter. I have to gather evidence and to look at the images I can't even describe how horrible it is. I have to steel myself and detach in a way that no parent should have to detach when I have to look at them. Plus, I still have the old stuff they did a little over a year ago. I have to keep everything for evidence. We reported it, but because of the sheer volumn of complaints they get, it takes at least a week.
Daughter doesn't't look-it's just too upsetting. Though, kids have called her about it. After all that she has been through in her life. I have to be honest, if I could get a pass on a few homicides, I wouldn't hesitate. Of course, I wouldn't, so I don't.
I have never been involved in the courts before and I'm a nervous wreck. I'm teary eyed and I can't even concentrate on my school work. I risk failing this term. Plus, I just don't know if it will do any good. Last time they retaliated and it was worse for daughter. They made the end of her Junior and the first part of her senior year a living nightmare.
I just can't let it go. I just can't. I can't. It won't stop. My first step is to at least drag the parents into court. I tried talking to them last time. Forget that! They're complete idiots and have no idea what their kids do on the internet. When I think about it, I just shake my head.
I don't know….I'm not one to ask for emotional help. I'M ALWAYS THE STRONG ONE. I'm the shoulder, but I guess I don't need a shoulder. I need a 'Don't be afraid-you CAN do it!' I just don't want to back out and hope that it all goes away. It didn't before and my guts tells me it won't go away if I do nothing.
So...help.
Daughter doesn't't look-it's just too upsetting. Though, kids have called her about it. After all that she has been through in her life. I have to be honest, if I could get a pass on a few homicides, I wouldn't hesitate. Of course, I wouldn't, so I don't.
I have never been involved in the courts before and I'm a nervous wreck. I'm teary eyed and I can't even concentrate on my school work. I risk failing this term. Plus, I just don't know if it will do any good. Last time they retaliated and it was worse for daughter. They made the end of her Junior and the first part of her senior year a living nightmare.
I just can't let it go. I just can't. I can't. It won't stop. My first step is to at least drag the parents into court. I tried talking to them last time. Forget that! They're complete idiots and have no idea what their kids do on the internet. When I think about it, I just shake my head.
I don't know….I'm not one to ask for emotional help. I'M ALWAYS THE STRONG ONE. I'm the shoulder, but I guess I don't need a shoulder. I need a 'Don't be afraid-you CAN do it!' I just don't want to back out and hope that it all goes away. It didn't before and my guts tells me it won't go away if I do nothing.
So...help.
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