lostwith3adhdboys
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My easy child, 15 has a best friend who is our neighbor. They have been best buddies since they were 3. They went to differ schools, us public, him catholic but now they are in HS together and are together a lot. The mom has been my girlfriend for years. But as our boys reached teen, she is extremely controlling and we are not. When i called the police 2 weeks ago on my difficult child her son was home and told my easy child and his prents. the husband texted my husband asking if there was anything we needed they were there for us. husband txted that the difficult child was not going "to school again and out of control" and that was why i called. so last night easy child is having a few boys sleep over and his boyfriend says he can not because his parents are uncomfortable because of difficult child would be home later. he told easy child and ps is now in tears because now he feels that that cant be friends anymore. I know i should of waited but i was upset and felt like a knife was in my back. I called her and said'i;m not sure what you think but i called the police becuse he was not going to school thats it. i had threatened it and needed to follow through. i said my feelings were hurt because she has known us for over 13 years and the kid has spent weekends with us at our vacation home for the last 7 years and tons of sleepovers. I thanked her for her support and said i needed to hang up before i said something i would regret. The history I shared with my friends was that difficult child's issues was adhd, school avoidance, low self esteem. he does not do drugs, he is not violent (violent like.. punches walls when ******) with anyone except us or drinks (too much) thats it. he has never been in trouble with the police. what pisses me off the most is she is one of those christians, who talk about, volunteers, goes to church every sundaybut she is so judgemental. practice what you preach...her 2 boys are perfect.... what would you have done? she