i have to apologize i've been in this place for years and have never ventured to offer support in this forum here. so i'm sorry...... yet now i'm going to be here alot i fit the 18 or out of home. ugh. ok so how do you guys do it? seriously i'm sitting here reading thru the posts and i'm like wow these ppl are amazing..... i'm soo weak on this one. your all really strong resourceful and well it's humbling. me, i'm like a fish out of water, wanna go get my kid every other day like some psycho mom. have to talk myself down almost every other day. letting go is hard, want to call the school, make her go fix it. on and on i go.............. yea ok so how?? get up each day and smile even if it's fake and move on?? ignore, detatch mantra's?? thanks!!!!