He agreed to all my contingencies, did not argue about any of them. I threw out all the paraphanalia, opiates, and all kinds of stuff. All medications that can be abused are locked up, I left out the tylenol and stuff like that, and the suboxone as he takes it twice a day. I am sure he could abuse that if he wanted to, but for now we will see. He is himself again. He has apoligized more than I have ever seen him, and actually is acting like a parent again. Last night, easy child would not do her chore and he had a strong discussion with her, I was in the kitchen and when I came out to the living room he was sitting on the couch holding her while she sobbed. I heard him say it was ok, daddy was back and he would not do that again. They know exactly what went on, and I think that it is important they see how destructive drug abuse can be. He has an appointment with Serenity Lane outpt on Tuesday, will be seeing a psychologist who deals with people dealing with chronic pain, and is going to set up a different therapist other than psychiatrist. psychiatrist is just too busy, and has cancelled several times and that really bothers husband. He needs someone who will not cancel on him for awhile. His pain is horrible, could be rebound from over using the opiates, or the other drugs working out of his system. It is hard to see him in such pain, but part of me is not too sympathetic as he did it to himself. I just have to be careful, because it would be cruel if I said what I think. We will do marriage counseling, and probably family counseling too. At this point I don't know if it will help at all, but I think it is worth trying. We actually all laughed and joked together, I don't remember the last time we had fun together without someone getting mad and exploding. easy child is worried that she may be BiPolar (BP). I will set up an evaluation for her, I am unsure but think that for her peace of mind she needs to know, and also for her and out quality of life. thank you all for your support and for being here. Once again, I do not know if or how I would have made it through this with the support I get here.