Welcome!! Glad to have you join us! step and runawaybunny have given great advice. Another couple of things you may want to do are to make a signature, a profile, set your screen to accept private messages, send private messages to others, and pick an avatar. You can do all of these from the Settings menu. After you click settings you will find a menu on the left side of the page.
You can write a signature like the ones at the bottoms of our posts. This helps us a TON because then we can keep the details of your family straight in our minds. PLEASE do NOT NOT NOT use real names, use ANY last names, or put other identifying info in the sig. medications, diagnosis, age, male or female, even pets are helpful to us as we try to respond to you. There is a limit on the size of the signature, but I don't know what it is. You can go and edit this at any time.
Avatars are another way to make things more interesting and to help us keep identities separate. They are also fun, lol! You can choose a stock avatar from a selection that comes up when you click on edit avatar. You can also upload a file for a different avatar. Do NOT use a picture of your kids, family, etc.... - for safety and privacy reasons. Privacy is a big deal here because we deal with very sensitive information and we are here because we have family members with mental illness and other problems. This is a super accepting, loving, supportive family and we always want to make sure that privacy and safety are protected.
Private messages (pm) can be very useful. We do not mention names of programs, people, etc... on the open forum. Any info that could reveal private info or name a program, doctor, etc.. is sent via pm only. Again, it is for safety. If you do not want to send or receive pm's, you can do this from the settings menu on the left side of the page.
If you want to know who the moderators of a forum are, go to the page that shows the various forums (general, Teens and Sub Abuse, Watercooler, etc...). Look at the description for each forum and the names of the moderators are listed. You can left click on any of the mod's names to go to their profile page.
I hope these are helpful! I will go and read your other post now. Be sure to check out the archives in the various forums as they have a TON of great info.