husband has been extremely crab by lately and very disrespectful to me. It started saturday. easy child's 2nd birthday party. husband did not help at all. He got oil changes on the cars (could have been done sunday), then was passed because I did not get easy child a gift. I said we could get him something on Sunday. I needed help getting set up for the party. Nope. He huffed and cussed and went and spent a fortune on easy child. When he got huffy and cussed today (over email and IM), I tried to pointing out it was likely stress from difficult child directed toward me. Nope. He is now staying elsewhere. Good thing difficult child is in inpatient treatment, but that will end Saturday. What will I do? I know this is all from stress induced by difficult child, but husband cannot speak to me how he was. Now I an alone with easy child, pets, and a fill time job.