First Nancy's daugther, Then Janet's Cory, and now... That's right ladies, difficult child is in jail again. And again it is surreal. husband was home today. Knock at door about 10 am. It was his cousin---a deputy with the sheriff's department. Conversation: Rusty, is your name William. Yes, it is. William Samuel. Yes, the 2nd. Oh, I'm looking for the 3rd. Oh, he doesn't live here. Well, actually I'm looking for ******* That's his roommate. They live on ****** Ave. Leaves here. husband calls difficult child. Tells him cops were here with warrant for roommate. difficult child is sleeping. Calls roommate and tells him. Goes back to sleep. Cops burst down the door. Warrant for roommate. Ask difficult child if he has any drugs. Honest boy---because he is trying to be honest---hands over his pot. He's arrested....simple possession and paraphernalia. So, he is spending another night with the county. And I am shaking my head wondering if he will ever, ever learn. The sad thing is that is so very many ways he is so much better than he was for years. But, I'm fine. I'm detached. I'm Zen!