Is detaching the best thing to do at this point? I feel like I have done EVERYTHING that I am capable of. After all of the court stuff and things with DFS and pshosp I am just out of ideas! They tell me it is their life and they are going to live it their way! So what do you do? When the police will not allow you to restrain your child from leaving your house (against their rights) and when they will sit there while they cuss you out and do NOTHING. And when you finally have enough and sweep their feet out from under them and YOU go to jail and NOTHING happens to the child who shoved you into the door and cussed you with names that you have never even HEARD of! What are you supposed to do? They told me in CO that if I didn't get control of difficult child 2 that they would remove my grandson from my home. That my family was "tough" and they didnt' have any suggestions or programs available for us? They told me to get control of her or place her with a family member! and these are the same people that I trusted and WENT to for help. I just feel like detaching is the ONLY way for ME to keep my sanity intact! What do you think?