so her motion (see the original thread) was denied (the judge was impressed by her disappearing from the kids' life for over a year and counting).
Then, still not paying for supervised visitations, she sprung some money for her half of the custody evaluation, and we are now going through it.
All those times when I was going through the insanity of the split-up, I would send some facts to the lawyer, only to hear that it's best to show it at the custody evaluation. And I am there now and have to find time and energy to marshal all the materials and facts, and to also respond to the thick stack of open-ended questions that the evaluator gave.
Pray I don't lose my focus during this critical stretch.
Me -- single dad, 50
difficult child 10m y.o. bipolar
easy child's 15f, 6m
Then, still not paying for supervised visitations, she sprung some money for her half of the custody evaluation, and we are now going through it.
All those times when I was going through the insanity of the split-up, I would send some facts to the lawyer, only to hear that it's best to show it at the custody evaluation. And I am there now and have to find time and energy to marshal all the materials and facts, and to also respond to the thick stack of open-ended questions that the evaluator gave.
Pray I don't lose my focus during this critical stretch.
Me -- single dad, 50
difficult child 10m y.o. bipolar
easy child's 15f, 6m