I've joined you in the loony bin. I'm almost ashamed to admit this, but we ASKED difficult child 1 to move back in. He is here on condition that he see a therapist and take it seriously. He went through his entire inheritance trying to make a living buying old cars and reselling them in Western Maine. He failed miserably, the entire region is depressed. The Army recruiters were targeting him, young men in that community are so desperate for work that they have no choice. We did not want to see our seriously depressed son end up in Afghanistan. Within four days of being here he has been rehired at his old mechanic job and will be making $19/hr once he meets flat rate. easy child and he have hated each other for years but they are now getting along really well. He has matured some and is showing her more respect, and she is reciprocating. They even watch tv together which is brand new behavior. At dinner he mentionned that the love of his life was about to deliver an other man's baby and easy child was the only one to show compassion. husband and I were both soooo relieved "she of the sexting episodes" is out of his life ! easy child told him how sorry she was for his pain. That's a huge WOW in this family!