Hi Everyone, I know I havent been on in a while. Catch up: But difficult child has decided she doesnt want to take her concerta medications. she has stopped them a while ago during the last couple of months of school, she finished out her 9th grade year 90% off it on home instruction. which she ended the year with a 3.80 gpa.. .. This year will be the first time back in school in almost 2 years not staying long because of getting kicked out. Now on probation, her po got us in contact with this program that is free if you dont have medicaid which we dont. It's called MST crisis intervention. We just started and its to take back control of our lives and home. Its an intense 3-6 month program where they come to the house 2 days a week for hour and a half each. On call 24/7. After all history has been taken and all the paper work is out of the way we start intervention today.. My key things to remember are: don't engage, when & then, dont feed the monster. And dont justify myself to her at all. If I start to engage (which i'm terrible at she is a button pusher) my husband has a key word that will trigger me out of the room stop the engaging. And a bunch of other things but this was given to me last night. So for today since I asked her to clean the bathroom yesturday and she didnt. Today will start off: Me: WHEN you clean the bathroom THEN I will give you the makeup. (hence we were going to throw in the flat iron in there because she cant live without it but my mother in law gave her a late birthday present last night and it was her own flat iron i about died and tried not to have a reaction). We are going to be treating to hopefully get her ODD under control, for her to beable control the monster. It's going to get worse before it gets better. I know this but sooner rather then end up in jail or worse dead somewhere. Crossing fingers. Has anyone gone threw this program.