First post. I have a 25 year old daughter, married, with- a daughter. She is an only child, which she blames for all of her problems. In hs she always picked the worst friends. They stole from her and eventually got her kicked out of hs. I was so proud of her in Band & Color Guard. She never made good grades but that was her choice. She's very bright. She graduated from an alternative hs and finished her sr year in 2 months. By the time graduation came around she had her Real Estate license. I couldn't have been more proud. But she started back with the old group of friends. Got fired and refused to try again in Real Estate. She got her Medical Assistant license while she was pregnant. Got a job, fired after a month and never tried to find another job. They moved from Texas to S Dakota. Broke my heart to see her and my grandbaby go. But they lasted 6 mos and came back with their tails between their legs. They both got jobs. She got a job at Walmart and fired after 2 months because of her attitude with a customer. Her husband is making decent money now. My daughter is the most lazy person I know. She has no self-esteem. She has a filthy house and doesn't take care of herself either. You can't criticize her about anything without crying and claiming no one cares, no one loves her. She blames everyone but herself for her problems. She lies and now stealing from me. I have been saving extra $ and put away in my closet. I was going to surprise my husband and hand him $ to pay off his motorcycle when I had enough. Was almost there. I had $ in my wallet that I stash for my bills and when I want to just buy something. In one day, I realized my wallet was empty. Then I went to my closet and the envelope was empty. I confronted her and she admitted to taking it. My husband wanted me to press charges but I couldn't because of my granddaughter. She has no insurance so I paid for her to talk to the Dr yesterday. He put her on anti-depressants. I don't know what she told him, but I'm sure she blamed everyone around her. Because of her bad choice of friends in hs, she really doesn't have any good friends now. She doesn't have insurance and I can't afford to get her in counseling. She doesn't do any hard drugs but her and her husband do smoke the incense that you can buy at head shops. I have lost all respect and trust in her. We are changing our locks and she will not be allowed at our house any more if we are not home. I know she's a good person, I just don't know what happened to her. She needs counseling and I don't know where to turn. Any advice would be so greatly appreciated.