well we saw the psychiatrist today and he thinks difficult child is bipolar II. i told him sw thought conduct and he said conduct tendencies but not actual cd. he put difficult child on trileptal so if any of you have had experience in with-this medication i could use your imput. so now i have 3 different diagnosis going on. psychiatrist with-bipolar, sw with-cd and school with-odd. any suggestions are welcome at this point. off now to do some research! thanks everyone.