Hi, I am glad to find somewhere to talk to someone. My son is four and a half years old. He has SDD, functioning at 24 mos-to young three year old level. He also has speech and language problems. He has been recently diagnosed with ODD. I feel isolated and depressed. It is very difficult to go out in public with him, so this limits what we can do as a family. This affects my other two children. He tantrums,is aggessive, and is a runner. On the flipside he can be the sweetest most loving kid ever.He has been kicked out of the best special needs childcare facility in our city, after two years. We were in behavioral therapy, but I had to stop after he had no daycare because I could'nt take anymore time off of work. I am about to freak out.