Hi
I'm new here but very relieved to have found this site. Such great advice and support - I wish I found you guys sooner. Anyway my difficult child is 9 yrs old and has been diagnosed with Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD) with possible ODD and Aspergers. My difficult child tantrums all the time - when going to school, parties, soccer etc any activity that he feels anxious about and is defiant when asked to do every day things-eat breakfast etc. We are not using medications as yet, but seeing psychologist for CBT.
Anyway my question is - what are your coping strategies- as cares/parents? Since I can't control my difficult child I really need to handle my own life. Sometimes my husband and I are so over whelmed with the bad behaviour we feel like we are hanging on by our finger nails. I feel I cant even appreciate my easy child (who has her faults but miniscule compared to difficult child) because we are constantly dealing with difficult child. It feels like he drains all life out of us.
Anyway if you could offer any strategies we would be grateful. You have provided such great advice dealing with various difficult child's I was wondering how you guys handle it all? We don't have the option of family support for a break so other advice would be great.
Thanks
I'm new here but very relieved to have found this site. Such great advice and support - I wish I found you guys sooner. Anyway my difficult child is 9 yrs old and has been diagnosed with Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD) with possible ODD and Aspergers. My difficult child tantrums all the time - when going to school, parties, soccer etc any activity that he feels anxious about and is defiant when asked to do every day things-eat breakfast etc. We are not using medications as yet, but seeing psychologist for CBT.
Anyway my question is - what are your coping strategies- as cares/parents? Since I can't control my difficult child I really need to handle my own life. Sometimes my husband and I are so over whelmed with the bad behaviour we feel like we are hanging on by our finger nails. I feel I cant even appreciate my easy child (who has her faults but miniscule compared to difficult child) because we are constantly dealing with difficult child. It feels like he drains all life out of us.
Anyway if you could offer any strategies we would be grateful. You have provided such great advice dealing with various difficult child's I was wondering how you guys handle it all? We don't have the option of family support for a break so other advice would be great.
Thanks