As you all know, my family are avid (not good) but avid golfers. Each year as a group we have several golf weekend outings & enjoy each other's company as we play. Of course, the women play behind the men. On the 5th hole, the men always send the drink cart back with paid round for those slow women who are holding up play behind us. Well, we slow women always took up the men on those rounds & ordered the drink carts to provide us another round on the 8th hole to be paid for by the men ahead. My mom always always insisted that this slowed down play & would get very irritated with the boys up front buying us rounds - especially dad. Those of us playing with mom would just chuckle & enjoy our lemonade. Last year, after mom died, & on the few rounds of golf I got in before I became ill, we dedicated the 5th hole to mom & raised a Mike's hard to mom after we finished putting. It's become another of our family traditions - just among the ladies (my sisters & SILs) in the family. Happy memories - just happy memories.