I just read the best parenting advice from the most unlikely of sources....Tommy Lee....Motley Crue. In case you don't know who he is here is a photo: Apparently, Tommy's center tattoo "Mayhem" is reinforced by his adult son. In the news, it was reported that his son cold-cocked him in the face and hit him so hard that Tommy was unconscious for several minutes. While he was on the floor his son "allegedly" taped and sent out a video on social media mocking his father. A spokesman for Tommy Lee said that Tommy is going to press battery charges because....here is the sage parenting advice.... "Tommy believes that you encourage the behavior you tolerate" !!! I've never listened to Motley Crue, don't follow Tommy Lee (or any celebrity for that matter) but this one line will not leave my head. It makes me reflect on what behavior I am encouraging in my soon to be 21 year old son.