We did the merry-go-round of family therapy again. It ended early with a lot of yelling on her part about how she never agreed to not being allowed to see her siblings not did she agree to supervised phone calls with us. I told her that her agreement wasn't necessary. That her only choice in the matter was to (a) have supervised phone calls with us or (b) do not have any phone calls. She chose (b). I sent the therapist an e-mail with my availablity for next month's family therapy via phone. She responded with the dates of a couple of holiday events that she thought we'd like to come down and visit during and we could do an in person family therapy then. Seriously? Drive 12 hours roundtrip and spend $400 to visit someone who can't hold a conversation with me without screaming at me???? NOT GOING TO HAPPEN. husband will likely go there once before Christmas to bring her gifts but he is hoping he can coordinate it with a 'guy trip' so that he is isn't just a 2-day, $400 delivery services. He'll be sure to go on a day that the therapist is off work. husband hasn't done family therapy with her in a couple of years, he hates the waste of time.