She was not allowed to ride bus home Class was on playground and it started raining, Faith refused to come in. Principal was called. She ignored him. Vice Principal was called. She was able to get Faith to walk with her. After they finally got her inside they called me and she had crawled under a table and wouldn't come out. @Home- Faith threw a tantrum because she lost her DVD player for lying to me about not having homework and lost her Nintendo DS because she did not finish a book report in class. She just refused to finish it. She brought me the DVD player but said she would not bring me the DS, told me that I could only have one. I told her she could either bring it to me or I would go get it and if I had to get it I was taking more stuff away. She screamed, jumped, stomped her feet and then slammed the door to her room. I went in and took the DS. She was screaming "No! No!" at me, and pulling on my arms to try and get it back from me. I walked out of the room and shut the door. When I left she was on the bed crying. She then came out of her room, screamed "I hate you!" and slammed the door again. I told her if she slammed that door one more time I was going to spank her. So of course, she opened it again just to slam it. I went in her room and told her to roll over (she was lying on the bed). She refused. I tried to roll her over and she kicked me in the face, I am unsure if it was intentional or not.. At this point I walked away, for fear of hurting her out of anger. We have used spanking before as a last resort and she has never tried to "fight" us off before. It's obviously not working anymore so we won't use it after this, but this was the thing that all we had to do was say the word "spank" and she would straighten right up. I feel horrible. It is rare for her to act out at home but when she does it makes me feel sick, my BiPolar (BP) goes sky high, I feel nauseous and then I feel like a really ****y parent.