Okay....I get a call from pcs principal yesterday to please come in right away I have your daughter in my office and it's extremely important. I asked is it really as I am very very sick(which is easy to tell as barely a whisper for a voice) and he says yes there has been a list...which I take to mean there is a hit list at the school again and daughter is on it.
So I throw on some decent clothes and run off to the school. I don't drive and it's minus 32 here so it's bloody cold and I am coughing and wheezing and feeling like throwing up by the time I get there....just to sit there and cool my heels for 20 mins.
Principal hands me a printout that is highlighted in several areas...it's a msn conversation between two girls. He goes on to inform me the conversation was brought to him by a third girl and they are concerned. According to this girl and her mom, my daughter and her friend threatened to kill this other girl...got it so far? I ask daughter if this is true and she said no and I've tried to tell him the conversation has been added to but principal keeps cutting me off and yelling at me.
I talk and try to get things straightened out...turns out the conversation didn't occur at school but at this other girl's home and was brought in. I said I have msn log files at home and will check them and take daughter and leave as principal is being an idiot and not listening to anyone, just keeps saying police have been called and charges are pending.
Come home and check the logs...hmmmm...seem to be different so I contact daughter's friend's mom and she checks her logs too...hmmm different too from what principal has. We both print off and go back to the school and he insists he has the correct one although it's easy now to see it's been heavily editted and added to, including the threat....none of the fonts and emoticons come close to what is in our logs...he suspends the girls anyway.
We contact the police and they said there is no offence and it did oocur outside of school and is no concern of the school and it is apparent to them that we are in the right.
However...sorry it's so long ladies...the girls are still suspended and principal is still saying the girls uttered a threat and they will be charged.
We have contacted a lawyer and the police as well as the school board and there is an appointment nexr week...but principal is sticking to his guns...oh by the way, this principal just had a cyber bullying workshop at school recently...ahhhh now it's making sense right?
My girl is a straight A student and no black mark on her record...until now....and he is definately on a witch hunt as other teachers have said daughter is a great student with the rare occasion of mouth/attitude for which she always writes an apology for....
What would you do? Home school or send her back for the rest of the year? We can't transfer schools, no other one close enough and we don't drive...bus fare would really strain us as oldest easy child is in high school and it's costing $100 a month already to send her by bus....argh...
Carolanne
So I throw on some decent clothes and run off to the school. I don't drive and it's minus 32 here so it's bloody cold and I am coughing and wheezing and feeling like throwing up by the time I get there....just to sit there and cool my heels for 20 mins.
Principal hands me a printout that is highlighted in several areas...it's a msn conversation between two girls. He goes on to inform me the conversation was brought to him by a third girl and they are concerned. According to this girl and her mom, my daughter and her friend threatened to kill this other girl...got it so far? I ask daughter if this is true and she said no and I've tried to tell him the conversation has been added to but principal keeps cutting me off and yelling at me.
I talk and try to get things straightened out...turns out the conversation didn't occur at school but at this other girl's home and was brought in. I said I have msn log files at home and will check them and take daughter and leave as principal is being an idiot and not listening to anyone, just keeps saying police have been called and charges are pending.
Come home and check the logs...hmmmm...seem to be different so I contact daughter's friend's mom and she checks her logs too...hmmm different too from what principal has. We both print off and go back to the school and he insists he has the correct one although it's easy now to see it's been heavily editted and added to, including the threat....none of the fonts and emoticons come close to what is in our logs...he suspends the girls anyway.
We contact the police and they said there is no offence and it did oocur outside of school and is no concern of the school and it is apparent to them that we are in the right.
However...sorry it's so long ladies...the girls are still suspended and principal is still saying the girls uttered a threat and they will be charged.
We have contacted a lawyer and the police as well as the school board and there is an appointment nexr week...but principal is sticking to his guns...oh by the way, this principal just had a cyber bullying workshop at school recently...ahhhh now it's making sense right?
My girl is a straight A student and no black mark on her record...until now....and he is definately on a witch hunt as other teachers have said daughter is a great student with the rare occasion of mouth/attitude for which she always writes an apology for....
What would you do? Home school or send her back for the rest of the year? We can't transfer schools, no other one close enough and we don't drive...bus fare would really strain us as oldest easy child is in high school and it's costing $100 a month already to send her by bus....argh...
Carolanne