I hope nobody but you guys ever sees this. My new daughter in law was wonderful, going to college, working as a manager in a huge convenience store chain, took such good care of my difficult child..you know. And we took on her own child as our own, she got together with difficult child as a single mom when her baby was a newborn. What's not to love, right? She quit school after she married him in Nov. I will really say flunked out. She is very lazy and never cleans, difficult child does all the cooking, waiting on her. Not too long ago , husband and I went over there, in the baby's room was a mountain of dirty diapers, we lit off on difficult child, daughter in law wasn't home. Yesterday I saw her mom, she told me daughter in law was fired, so husband asked difficult child about that. difficult child said no, then 10 minutes later, difficult child called back, yes she kept that info secret from him. She just admitted it when he asked her. About a week ago it was her birthday and she wanted another pair of Ugg's. difficult child bought them a week earlier so she could try them on, then she was horrified when he said that she already got her gift last week and she needed a gift on her actual birthday, these 2 have NO MONEY to begin with. He is really bad with money, she is clearly worse, and a total difficult child. She hadn't worked in 3 weeks, telling him she was off for 'her birthday week" and then the next week also. I can over look a lot of things. I have just been sad for difficult child today. Let me add, she's pregnant. He has not been working and his unemployment is going to run out in 2 weeks. Ugg's are $200. I know this isn't my problem, but it still is bothersome.