It's been a crazy week. I wanted to thank you for the great support regarding our friend K. It's particularly hard on husband. He had a tragedy as a young man. He was having dinner on a restaurant/boat out on a lake (in Kansas) when a tornado struck and it went under. Several people died including his sister. He went through survivor guilt and ptst. He remembers being in the water and getting rescued. His mom (also rescued) was never the same. So now losing his surrogate daughter to drowning, it's kind of eery. Oh, and guess what, husband's employer is appealing that they lost their unemployment insurance appeal. husband isn't sure whose ego is involved here but I told him that, with the way he can sometimes get to me, it must be a woman lol. We're trying to keep it all in perspective. Thy will be done. Anyway, I wanted to tell all of you how much I love you. You are an amazing source of support in my life. I tell you things I don't tell anyone else. I realize you've become my best friend. I often have to remind myself to pull back because it's an online forum anyone can see but it so doesn't feel that way. Lastly, know that even if I don't respond to posts with words, you are always in my prayers. Thank you for accepting me, warts and all, into this family. I will try to catch up with posts in the coming days.